The way you do anything is not the way you do everything

MindsetCancerPhilosophyEmotional IntelligenceMindfullness

Jun 5

So there are a lot of people in the high-performance community, the striving for excellence community, who have this saying that goes back to the stoic philosophy principles: “the way you do anything is the way you do everything.” In my mind, that might not be absolutely true all the time.

The way you do one thing doesn't have to be the way you do everything

If you think of Mozart, think of how amazing his music and compositions were to humanity back then and even still today. How he did his music was not necessarily how he did his relationships, from my understanding. He wasn't very good at relationships but with his music, he did really well, so it didn't carry over into his life.

What the stoic philosophy is trying to say is that if you do anything, then you'll do everything that same way, so it'll carry over. If you're lazy in one thing, you're going to be lazy in another. If you're lacking here, you're going to lack there. If you have a white lie here, you're gonna lie everywhere, and that's not absolutely true.

I want people to think about the dynamics of our human experience where we oscillate around different energies from around us. How I act, behave, or manage my own social intelligence in the presence of a certain group of people or a certain person versus another person. I'm a little bit different when I'm doing a private coaching session than when I'm at the coffee shop. You’ll access your social intelligence and respond accordingly to the situation.

How you do everything is not necessarily how you do everything, and I want people to really relax, stay open-minded, open-hearted, and not have to strive for this societal perfection that people are aiming for.

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Key Takeaways

Amplified awareness accesses conscious choice for deliberate action and behavior.
Make no Assumptions because every belief, feeling and behavior can be questioned
Raise your standards, but let go of perfection.
Always do your best in any situation.

Perfection Of Character Is This Live Each Day Fully Devoid Of Frenzy Apathy Or Pretense

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I'm a holistic heroic performance life coach who empowers people dealing with cancer or chronic illness to find their own path towards healing.

As a 6x cancer survivor, I realized that cancer isn’t the disease - it’s the expression of the disease. Cancer was my body’s way of waking me up. And it became my greatest opportunity to awaken into my own conscious spiritual evolution. That’s why I became a holistic heroic performance coach focused on HOPE - Helping Other People Evolve into their true authentic selves.